Activities are not the only things that can make life meaningful.
Not only as an acting being, but also as a loving one, by loving and devoting beautiful things, great things, and good things, we can meet the various needs of our lives.
There is no need to explain the fact that beauty experiences can make life meaningful.
Occupational work is not the only place where activities can make your life meaningful. Is it true that only professional work makes life meaningful?
The work of many people can be mechanical as well as pointless.
They lament and complain about the pointlessness of their labor. No wonder.
Only in the leisure time of an insignificant amount, the lives of these people are formed into meaningful things and filled with individual and human meanings.
Those who have abundant leisure have a great opportunity to make their lives meaningful.
The first thing that can be considered is the answer given in the activity.
It is to respond by doing something.
By doing something and creating something,
we make the questions that life poses meaningful.
It is wrong from the beginning that we ask, “Is it meaningful to live?” We should not ask what it means to live. It’s because life asks and raises our questions.
We are being questioned.
We must answer the questions that life always asks, the questions of life. It is the existence that must answer. Living itself is nothing but a question.
We all live to answer. And that is to take responsibility for being alive.
Asking if it makes sense to live is wrong from the beginning.
It is because life asks us questions and raises questions.
In the first place, suffering and death make life meaningful.
Living is always a task assigned.
You can stop even if you decide once.
“I can’t help it. Let’s follow a different plan. Hopefully, it works, and if it doesn’t work, I’ll try this one.”
With this kind of thinking, there is almost no damage.
And most of daily life is “If this doesn’t work, You’ll try another way”. For example, there are household chores, travel, room redesign, and car purchases. Even if you say “Let’s do this”, you don’t have to worry if you change the plan if problems arise.
It’s the same for work, and if it doesn’t work, just change the plan. In cases where time is wasted or costs are wasted, the more damage you can identify, the less damage will occur.
Rather, sticking to a decision once and sticking to it will spread the wound.
“How to win” depends on the person.
What will be a “win”, what kind of result will be a win, and this will all depend on the person.
In simple terms, a greedy person can’t wait until he wins a big. Unattended people are happy with a draw.
Then, it becomes a question of how to live.
People who are happy with a draw can go at their own pace without throwing out their lives.
But if you don’t win big, you’ll be dissatisfied or grudge at others with just a little loss.
Which one keeps happiness when it is considered as a matter of life.
Why don’t you think from these three perspectives when designing your life?
● What do you want to do?
What do you want to do most? It is necessary to think carefully about this. If you have something to do, it’s the happiest thing to do. Also, because of that, we can do our best without any effort.
● What is right for me?
It is also important to accurately judge your ability aptitude and think in what direction in the future you can maximize your ability. There is nothing more painful and unfortunate than doing something that is not for you. Therefore, it is important to think about what is the best way to utilize yourself.
● What should I do?
What is the most sought after society today? It is also necessary to think about it. Anticipating the needs of the times can create new business opportunities. Also, parents’ hopes cannot be ignored. In some cases, you may have to take over the work of your home.
All of these three ideas are important. An idealistic person might only think about the third, but it’s common that if you go after what you’re interested in, it will benefit you as well.
If you want to live your ideal life, a life that suits you, you must learn how to overcome fear. Fear is the dream’s only and greatest enemy, and more than anything else has prevented us from realizing our dreams. Because of fear, people are unable to take the necessary and successful actions and get stuck on the spot.
Anyway, you have to go through fear and take action.
One way to do this is to believe that if you do what you do, everything will work. Note that I used the phrase “what I should do”. There is always something you can do in any situation, and we have to do it.
Do what you need to do. Then everything will work.
To overcome the fear of failure, take action, examine the results, and improve your actions until you get the results you want.
You can get the results you want by carefully examining the results of your actions and focusing more on the methods that work out of the way. This is a health, diet and relationship issue that starts your own business.
Act anyway, throw away the ones that don’t work, and find the ones that work.